Is there any chance inheritance anything from my "father"

last SG · 2009-06-18T21:41:22+00:00

Alright.... I will close the thread. TS, if you need further discussion on this, please start a new thread.Cheers!

rainee SG

In our brutal Asian society.. yes they are labeled "bastards".. but are they really ?

Is that a legal classification or an abusive way our "asian" society treats a human being ?

In an evovled society.. those children are born out of "Wedlock".. and they are accorded equal rights and priviledges as children born within a marriage.

What about children who's mother are divorced. Are they considered bastards too ?

So the only difference is a piece of paper to legalise two adults living together and have "legalised" children.

Seriously.... that is not even funny. It's sick.

Yea, I know it is sick but sad to say, that's the cruel reality. Truth is never pretty nowadays, esp not in this country where most things go by the book and based on what you have in black and white.

Technically children whose mothers are divorced are not bastards, as the mother was married to the father when they were born/conceived...

That's why...since laws are not very kind towards women, this is a call to all women to open their eyes big big...don't get yourself into trouble by getting pregnant when you are not legally married to someone. Women will always end up with the shorter end of the stick in this situation.

BadzMaro SG

Good to see u 2 ..

getting along..

Now i shall reveal my true form!

haha879 SG

Too bad we are not in US...this is Singapore we are talking about...

And if she is not legally married to him, she is not even considered his spouse lolz...

I dunno what you call the children of a woman who is not legally married to the man who impregnates her...

Thank you jojobeach U understand what im trying to say and not being insensitive like those people

And u rainee cant believe u used "lolz" , i doubt u have ever experiences anything like my mum, u not worth to talk about my mum.

If u wanna scold or laugh at me go ahead but never try to mention my mum. She is my mum not your mum.

Rainee Do u like when i say your mum didnt teach u moral and compassion and u grow up being sadistic and insensitive?

And u say im a "illegitimate" r u saying im a bastard?

All my relative from his side knows me. My Birthcert have his name.

He betrayed my mother trust and have an affair legally , even he is dead now honestly i would like him to rot in hell.

deepak.c SG

You hate him so much, yet you want his money.

Fighting for inheritance is out of the question, because I think your dad most likely left it to his other son. Fighting for maintenance order (till you are 21 y.o.), not sure if it's possible if the estate has already been distributed. If you have lived more than 12 years in that house without paying rent, you might have still have a case.

When did your dad pass away?

jojobeach SG

Technically children whose mothers are divorced are not bastards, as the mother was married to the father when they were born/conceived...

Cruelty can be reality only if we accepts it and let it proliferate.

While a case can be good learning and educational material to forewarn other women...

We should not cast stones on the one suffering from such injustice now.

jojobeach SG

You hate him so much, yet you want his money.

When did your dad pass away?

Your sarcasm is not even funny.

Putting a smiley face at the end of your sentences doesn't make your sarcasm less hurtful.

Do you know that people who likes to use sarcasm are cowards who are afraid to face the consequences of their real intentions ?

And what cok you toking ? Where do you think the maintenance order is gona pay from.. the Inheritance lah.. GOONDO!

rainee SG

Thank you jojobeach U understand what im trying to say and not being insensitive like those people

And u rainee cant believe u used "lolz" , i doubt u have ever experiences anything like my mum, u not worth to talk about my mum.

If u wanna scold or laugh at me go ahead but never try to mention my mum. She is my mum not your mum.

Rainee Do u like when i say your mum didnt teach u moral and compassion and u grow up being sadistic and insensitive?

And u say im a "illegitimate" r u saying im a bastard?

All my relative from his side knows me. My Birthcert have his name.

He betrayed my mother trust and have an affair legally , even he is dead now honestly i would like him to rot in hell.

I am not saying that what your father has done is right, and I agree that yes, he should rot in hell.

There are too many loopholes in your story and these might be what has caused the misunderstanding among so many forumites here. If you can just state it clearly, I think you will have less assumptions and the people here will be able to help you better.

Is your mother ever married to your father? By married, I mean, do they even have a marriage cert with both their names on it? If according to what you have said here, your mother is your father's first wife, and after that your father went on to have an affair with another woman...is that correct? But from what jojobeach has said earlier to me, it seems that your mother is the second "spouse" who is not legally married to your father, but just cohabited with him for a long period of time. So what is the true story here?

If you can't even take what I have said above, I would suggest you don't fight for the inheritance. Truth is, you and your mother (provided she is not legally married to your father) will be called names I have mentioned above, and may be called worse, if you want to bring this matter to court and fight for what has been given to others. You can't shield your mother from this; she is at the heart of everything. So if you all decide to go ahead and fight for it, all I can say is to stay strong.

deepak.c SG

Your sarcasm is not even funny.

Putting a smiley face at the end of your sentences doesn't make your sarcasm less hurtful.

Do you know that people who likes to use sarcasm are cowards who are afraid to face the consequences of their real intentions ?

And what cok you toking ? Where do you think the maintenance order is gona pay from.. the Inheritance lah.. GOONDO!

I am merely stating facts, there is nothing that I gain if either TS gets or do not get the inheritance.

If you hate his guts and want him dead, what gives him the right to take his father's money? This is atypical to a US marriage, where the wife in a divorce proceedings sues the ex-husband for half his wealth, it's like the wife marries the husband for money, just like our parn (the $30k wife).

Go read my post again and try you best to understand. I said maintenance order also difficult because the assets has been distributed already. (If TS has just cause, then he could have filed an application for maintenance order during probate and admin, if it's been distributed already to say 5 different folks, who should TS take action against.) Maybe he should sue the step brother for maintenance order. Apparently you have comprehension and hate management issues. Seems like everybody who disagrees with you will be cursed and insulted.

And why is TS not providing any more information???

For all we know, he is just trolling for attention.

The laughing smileys wasn't intended for TS' predicament, it's more like me laughing at jojobeach's idiocy.

deepak.c SG

Sorry hor.. most of the time.. it's just empty threats.

Empty threats? You must be extremely naive.

You take a $20k loan from the bank, renege on the payments, the bank gets their lawyers to write you a letter of demand and you call their bluff.

Letter of demands are the first step in the legal process before the plaintiff can submit a writ of summons. The reason why some folks choose to leave the claim at the letter of demand is because the cost of going to courts is too prohibitive and the chance of recovering the damages is low.

Gloaterback SG

how about investing in $50 to get 10 Banglas to put a black sack over his head and beating him up with sticks??

jojobeach SG

Empty threats? You must be extremely naive.

You take a $20k loan from the bank, renege on the payments, the bank gets their lawyers to write you a letter of demand and you call their bluff.

You're a real retard Deepak

Your understanding on the real world is sorely lacking.

Go back and finish your PSLE first.. then I explain to you ok ?

jojobeach SG

I am merely stating facts, there is nothing that I gain if either TS gets or do not get the inheritance.

And why is TS not providing any more information???

For all we know, he is just trolling for attention.

The laughing smileys wasn't intended for TS' predicament, it's more like me laughing at jojobeach's idiocy.

I'm also laughing at you for your stupidity.

Hello Kitty SG

When you express views contrary to this person's, she'll most likely insult and curse you and your family.

Her views are the ONLY views, any other views are wrong.

x2.

haha.

spot on.

jojobeach SG

x2.

haha.

spot on.

And are you saying you don't insult ?

Your comments are not mean ?

Trying to act cute while saying mean things..doesn't make your mean-ness go away.

Acting stupid while being a bitch .. still makes you come across as a bitch.. only worst.

deepak.c SG

You're a real retard Deepak

Your understanding on the real world is sorely lacking.

Go back and finish your PSLE first.. then I explain to you ok ?

Focus on the topic and the statements I made, then try to come up with other valid points.

Ooops..........I forgot you can't do that, you can only resort to insults to win an argument.

jojobeach SG

Focus on the topic and the statements I made, then try to come up with other valid points.

Ooops..........I forgot you can't do that, you can only resort to insults to win an argument.

LOL.. havn't you heard about " Pot calling the kettle black " ??

I'd love to focus on the topic.. expect you have been coming up with half assed comments that doesn't even make sense.

Ofcors I don't need to insult , but if you deserve it.. I am always happy to oblige

Now.. tell me.. have you passed your PSLE already ?

deepak.c SG

Hello Kitty made some statements about this issue and was insulted and cursed by jojobeach.

rainee made a very neutral statement about TS situation and was also insulted and cursed by jojobeach.

I am beginning to think that your level of work does not require much IQ and EQ.

Hello Kitty SG

And are you saying you don't insult ?

Your comments are not mean ?

Trying to act cute while saying mean things..doesn't make your mean-ness go away.

at least i'm able to respect ppl's sensible opinions.

& i dun go ard bringin ppl's parents into the picture.

u do dat all the time - no parents teech is liddat one.

u say 1 time - nvm, i pity u, juz close one eye can le.

more than dat & me wun hesitate to rtrn u the favour.

u & ur shitty life are the way it is becoz of urself.

bt others, desperately, want to get out of theirs.

so stop tryin to teech ppl to follow ur footsteps.

Hello Kitty SG

Acting stupid while being a bitch .. still makes you come across as a bitch.. only worst.

hw beri sad dat u r nt able to c urself clearly at all.

sad person.

sad life.

hw sad.

jojobeach SG

Hello Kitty made some statements about this issue and was insulted and cursed by jojobeach.

rainee made a very neutral statement about TS situation and was also insulted and cursed by jojobeach.

I am beginning to think that your level of work does not require much IQ and EQ.

I only insult you and HK.. because both of you have no manners.

Rainee is a sensible adult.. pls do not compare yourself with her.

My level of work is way beyond what you are learning at school now.. so plese stop your baseless assumptions.

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